I don't really want to write about it. But last night, i was out in town with some of the girls from choir, and blondie and orion came into the bar we were in. I don't and didn't want any trouble, and was pleased that we were able to keep things civil (well, despite them standing at the bar glaring at me). Then i got a text from Blondie saying that Orion was right and that i was a silly little girl who played mind games. What?? Where had that come from?

I was quite upset by this, as clearly although Blondie had told me he was keeping out of things, he blatently isn't.

I phoned him, and i ended up having Orion on the phone to me, threatening me. I was really quite disturbed by this and spent most of the night trembling at the threats.

Not one to be beaten, i discussed with our HR what to do. In the end i sent a note to Blondie, saying that i really wanted to resolve this as i am not looking for trouble and was really quite distressed.

He spoke to HR, and then i went into the HR room with him. We agreed not to contact each other anymore. That he doesn't want work and personal to mix (although why he then started telling me all his personal stuff i will never know), and i am happy with that. I feel that there is a happy medium, other than being civil (Which is Blondie-speak for ignoring), but it's not what he wants. And well, what he wants he gets.