Well, anyway i was. But apparently it's an everyday thing and is ok for discussion between two adults who don't know each other.
To me it isn't. and this same person has apparently never met any other woman who would be upset by it. So this makes me feel as if i am so different from everyone else.
I am glad that i have this blog, as it gives me a chance to just write about all this, instead of bottling it up and making myself very depressed.
I try not to think that maybe this is normal, and indeed i will never find anyone who would be a gentleman and not bring things like that up, even as a joke, until he knows me a bit better. Maybe it's hopeless.
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It's all about context I suppose...
It's certainly not the usual topic of polite conversation and not a great ice breaker.
Some people find conversation quite difficult, especially with "new people", so it's possible the guy was kicking himself afterwards (been there...), either that or he's a bit of a creep.
since when has rape been a joke - or a topic for enjoyable conversation??? using it as a conversational gambit tells me he could be anything from a mere scuzzball to a full-blown loonytune... or just an idiot with no social skills &/or nothing to say! to be on the safe side you are better off out of it
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