I guess you could say that things are really changing for me. I finally gave in and joined Club Sirius. Of course, i am aware that as a woman the amount of men for me to choose to meet is very limited. For some reason there are far more single women than men, can anyone explain that. But at least by joining i am actively doing something and not sitting at home alone just dreaming. Of course, not everyone chooses to have their profile on the website...or maybe there just are few single men my age!

At least i'm in a better position than some of the girls at work. They have a lot more pressure from their families, indeed one of them had her chart read out in India which said that she had (basically, since i can't remember the word for it and don't know any of the Asian languages my colleagues speak) bad karma that meant that she was unable to attract a bloke. Her dad has bought her a special ring which she is supposed to wear to get rid of the negativity. She wasn't very impressed by this at all!