Are you happy with the current state of your life? If not, what things would you want to change? How can you go about making the changes? Must you rely on other people for these changes to be brought about, or are they things that you can accomplish on your own?

Nope, but then that's obvious.

What would i most like to change? my body, and get a house.

How am i making thse changes? I'm trying to stick to the plan again, and i'm going to exercise over the weekend. I've looked at mortgages, and now i'm looking at houses!

So, i am actually doing something. OK, maybe the situation isn't as hopeless. And i'm also not thinking about S. Although if i get into that sad and lonely groove, i will end up thinking that this is how i'm supposed to feel because i turned him down when i didn't trust blokes...